What Makes a Successful Writer... or Spouse... or Parent...?

How do you define success in life? On his website, Christian literary agent Chip MacGregor has a thought-provoking blog on this topic. chipmacgregor.typepad.com/main/ He explains that from a market standpoint, most people define an author's success in two simple words: book sales. If you sell a ton of books, you're successful. But he goes on to expand that definition and explain how the real measure of success is SIGNIFICANCE.

It's true that, even in Christian publishing, the bottom line (money) is the bottom line. Publishers are in it to make money, and the more books you can sell, the more money they make. And the more they love you.  

But I think that the downturn in the economy has changed Americans' values a lot. I know it's affected me. Yes, my goal as a writer, editor and speaker is to be as successful as possible. But significance is more important. If I can help people, if I can influence and inspire them to live a better life, then I have succeeded. God has given my husband and me a dynamic and unique platform for ministry. We feel that it's our call to share the message that the Lord has laid on our hearts in order to inspire, encourage, and uplift others in their spiritual walk and their marriage journey.

In my travels as an author and speaker, I've met many other authors who may never reach #1 on the New York Times bestseller list, yet they are warm, inspiring, godly and fun-loving people with fascinating stories to share. They have loved me and provided me with great encouragement as a young author. They have given me practical advice and helped me expand my ministry and build my platform. I'm forever grateful to them. And to me, they are all successes, whether they ever sell another book or not. Best of all, they are SIGNIFICANT.

In the spiritual life, not all success is measurable in dollars and cents. It's not measurable in inches, pounds, or any type of numerical system. For example, Jesus said, "Follow Me." This SEEMS to be one of the simplest commands in the Bible, but HOW PROFOUND. Man, to follow Him every day is not easy, is it? "Follow Me" means "imitate Me, love Me, sacrifice your needs and wants for Me, show Me to others, obey all of My commands."

To me, success means following Jesus, no matter what.