I've spoken to several men and women recently who seem to be trudging dolefully through a tough stage in their lives and their marriages, as though they're dragging a ten-ton stone behind them. I understand completely. Our son, Evan, just turned one on July 6. Having him has been an unspeakable joy, yet this has also been by far the most challenging year of my life. (The fact that I'm eight months pregnant with our second child may have something to do with that!)
Life changes, big and small, cause upheaval. Maybe for you, it's been a move, financial struggles, a marriage, a divorce, a death in the family, or the loss of a job. I don't think that I've ever encountered so many people struggling with an identity crisis, a feeling of wondering what on earth happened to the person that they used to be. And yes, I've wondered that pretty much every day myself since the day my baby son was born.
What has gotten me through is the fact that even when I'm no longer sure how all of the complex aspects of myself, my family life, and my creative pursuits fit together, God is. He knows who I am. And more important, I know who He is. HE IS THE GREAT I AM. Isn't it interesting and odd that when Moses asked, "Who should I say you are?" God said simply, "I AM." His identity is in His being, His perfection, His holiness, His integrity. He does not have to DO anything to be Himself; He simply has to BE.
The truth is, you are. God made you. You are here on the earth, and you are here for a reason. No one has ever been like you, with your unique combination of characteristics, personality traits, quirks, sense of humor, gifts, and abilities. If you're a writer, God has gifted you with a voice and a way to write and describe things that is special and particular to you. If you don't write those ideas down and share them with the world, no one else will.
Part of loving God, loving yourself and loving other people is using your voice and your gifts to communicate your personal message.
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